The description says its based on an actual disappearance...totally missed that part, as far as I can tell nothing bad happens to anybody, besides miserable marriages. Its supposed to be this chilling and suspenseful story, but I had no interest on what happened to Natalie and I didn't feel it was chilling, it was chaotic maybe. I just didn't like it, I was bored and found it a bit tedious to read.
Tuesday, February 21, 2017
Hangsman by Shirley Jackson (Read 2/2/17 to 2/21/17) - 2 Star
So this is supposed to be a coming of age story I think. Natalie goes off to college and leave her childhood behind and becomes an adult. Now I normally like Shirley Jackson, but I didn't like this book. I felt it was hard to follow and the characters were un-relatable. I think Jackson did it on purpose, made them all seem a little crazy but I can;t for the life of me see why. Natalie's father is controlling and she is sheltered. I also wonder if she doesn't have multiple personalities. The writing felt disjointed and hard to read. It almost felt to me like I was reading a stream of consciousness of a crazy person. I couldn't follow the timeline or the character arc...and then it ended and I didn't see what was accomplished.
Monday, February 20, 2017
2017 to current.
I swear I am going to get back on the blogging horse...I just have failed...with this post though I am 100% back up to date and I will do it right from here on out!
The Last Days of
Night by Graham Moore (Listened to 1/3/17 to 1/6/17) - 3 Star
This is the January book for my book club NNCC. I listened to the book on audio, and as plus
the narrator did a good job, in fact my kids listened to parts and liked it
too.
This is the story of the famous lawsuit between Edison and
Westinghouse over who invented the light bulb, and the reality that it was
about much more than a simple patent, it was about the future of electricity as
we know it. It is set in New York in 1888;
George Westinghouse hires Paul Cravath fresh out of Columbia Law School to be his
lawyer on the billion dollar lawsuit between Westinghouse and Thomas
Edison. The case affords Paul entry to the heady world
of high society—the glittering parties in Gramercy Park mansions, and the more
insidious dealings done behind closed doors. The task facing him is beyond
daunting. Edison is a wily, dangerous opponent with vast resources at his
disposal—private spies, newspapers in his pocket, and the backing of J. P.
Morgan himself. Yet this unknown lawyer shares with his famous adversary a compulsion
to win at all costs. In obsessive
pursuit of victory, Paul crosses paths with Nikola Tesla, an eccentric,
brilliant inventor who may hold the key to defeating Edison, and with Agnes
Huntington, a beautiful opera singer who proves to be a flawless performer on
stage and off. As Paul takes greater and greater risks, he’ll find that
everyone in his path is playing their own game, and no one is quite who they
seem.
The book was good; I liked the dynamics and the writing
style. I knew a little about the
historical figures, especially the rivalry between Edison and Tesla because my
Ex was fascinated by Tesla and had both told me a lot about him and I had read
some of Tesla's papers and biography. I
liked the main character Paul and how in the end everything wrapped up nicely,
I suspect if this had been more fact than historical fiction it may not have
been quite so smooth, life rarely is. I
liked that there was enough fact in the fiction to make the story feel authentic
and I don't feel like Moore took too much creative license.
How to Murder a
Millionaire by Nancy Martin (Read 1/6/17 to 1/7/17) - 3 Star
I have had this book on my shelf for some time, and I just
finally got around to reading it. This
is about Nora Blackbird, a former Socialite in Philadelphia. Her Parents left her with the family farm,
and the 2 million dollar tax debt. In
order to pay the bill, she must get a job, and she beigns working for a
newspaper as the society page writer. It
is during one of these parties that she finds murdered body of the host, and
her friend. This of course pulls Nora
into the investigation, can she figure out who, what and why before it becomes
her life on the line.
This was exactly what I thought it would be, a fun light
read. The characters are quirky and the
storyline is engaging. The love story
angle took a backseat to solving the murder, which was nice. And it was obvious that Martian was doing
some world building to set the scene for a series. Which I admit, I went and put on my
thriftbook.com wish list. I enjoyed the
characters and their craziness. The
murder was tame compared to some I have read, and the mystery was good. Upon reflection there were some clues and I
had my suspicions, but the actual murder was not who I thought it was. Although, I knew the murder was involved in
some way, just not the actual deed. So
although the clues pointed in the right direction, they did not give away the
ending. I liked it. The writing was good, it flowed smoothly and
made it a nice quick weekend book for me.
Fingersmith by Sarah
Waters (Read 1/17/17 to 1/28/17) - 4 Star
This is a Victorian drama in true Dickensian darkness. Sue Trinder is an orphan and raised by Mrs.
Sucksby in the London slums. Sue is
offered to participate in a Con, become the maid of Maud Lilly and help
Gentleman entice her in to marriage for her fortunes. But there are twists, and then there are more
twists!
Midnight Crossroad by
Charlaine Harris (Read 1/2/17 to 1/22/17) - 3 Star
This is the new series by Charlaine Harris and there are
lots of characters from other books in it, which let me tell you sent me down
some rabbit holes since I have read ALL of her books and I had to remember
where they came from. But it was fun, I
like the town and the characters, they all have great back stories, maybe I liked
them so much because I actually knew the back stories. Gotta give Harris her props, my jaw actually
fell open at the end of the who dunnit.
Day Shift by
Charlaine Harris (Read 1/29/17 to 2/1/17) - 4 Star
The next one in the series, built nicely upon the first
book. I liked the storyline better, the
end wasn't as shocking.
Night Shift by
Charlaine Harris (Read 2/5/17 to 2/7/17) - 4 Star
This felt like a wrap up for me, everyone's storylines
seemed concluded, a nice little trilogy.
Self Help that didn't help the way I thought
You know when I was married I read a whole lot of self help
books to try and salvage my marriage, but out of shame I never put the reviews
on my blog, I didn't want anyone to know I was reading them. I didn't want anyone to know that my marriage
was failing and that I was having to work at it. Maybe if I had some people would have known
to reach out, I don't think it would have made a difference at the time, but
upon reflection I am proud of how hard I worked to save my marriage, and true we didn't save it, we are still
divorced, but I can honestly look back at all the reading and talking and
therapy and say, I gave it 120%. Our
marriage ending in divorce is, and I have no regrets and no wonders if there
had been more that I could have done because I did everything in my power,
besides allow the situation to remain status quo.
The Books I read that I didn't post reviews for were:
True Love: A Practice
for Awakening the Heart by Thich Nhat Hanh - This was a book recommend
by my therapist, and on some of our joint sessions she would sometimes quote
parts.
Forgiveness: How to
Make Peace with Your Past and Get on With Your Life by Sidney B. Simon -
another book recommend by my therapist, intened to deal with trauma from my
childhood and my rape, but did add some insight to forgiving my ex-husband.
How to Stop Lying:
The Ultimate Cure for Guide for Pathological Liars and Compulsive Liars by Caesar Lincoln - I read this
because he managed to convince me that I was a pathological liar, and I was so
far down the rabbit hole that I actually believed him, even though I knew I
wasn't.
I Love You But I
Don't Trust You: The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship by
Mira Kirshenbaum - This was supposed to be for me to earn his trust back, but
it ended up teaching me a lot about myself and the way my ex was treating and
lying to me.
Tell Me No Lies by Elen Bader - again it was supposed to be
about showing my ex I was trust worthy, again it opened my eyes to some of the
lies he was telling me.
How to Love by
Thich Nhat Hanh - After the first Thich Nhat Hahn book, something clicked and I
began to buy them all
The 5 Love Languages:
the Secret to Love that Lasts by Gary Chapman - this was insightful and for
a little bit it, it did seem help, but it was sadly short lived.
One More Try: What to Do when Your Marriage is Falling
Apart by Gary Chapman - Yep too late for this to help, maybe if I had read
it years ago.
Things I wish I'd
Known Before We Got Married by Gary Chapman - ditto
The 5 Languages of Apology: How to Experience Healing in All Your
Languages by Gary Chapman - Sadly I spent most of my time apologizing,
although no matter how I tried they were never accepted, again I believe it was
because I was the wrong person apologizing.
The Argument Free
Marriage: 28 Days to Creating The
Marriage You've Always Wanted With the Spouse You Already Have by Fawn
Weaver - I don't think we got past the introduction.
When Sorry Isn't
Enough: Making Things Right with Those
You Love by Gary Chapman - Good stuff, just didn't work for us.
The Art of
Communicating by Thich Nhat Hanh - we even signed the contracts but one of
us wouldn't hold up their end of the bargin.
Anger: Wisdom for Cooling the Flames by Thich
Nhat Hanh - This was more for him and his anger
issues, but I read it too, and it helped a lot during the divorce proceedings
to calm my anger at him.
Difficult
Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most by Douglas Stone - Found
out afterwards that I didn't have problems with difficult conversations, I had
problems with conversations with him.
Peace is in Every
Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life by Thich Nhat Hanh - I use
the ideas here everyday to ground myself and appreciate my life, even when it
is full of turmoil.
Fear: Essential
Wisdom for Getting Through the Storm by Thich Nhat Hanh - Fear ruled my life
for the last few years, this was great for facing and even embracing them.
No Mud, No Lotus: The
Art of Transforming Suffering by Thich Nhat Hanh - Another great one, I
love this guy!
The Miracle of
Mindfulness by Thich Nhat Hanh - sort of like Peace is in Every Step, but
still good.
Your True Home by
Thich Nhat Hanh - 365 days of thought provoking blurbs, I just skim it
sometimes
Once the separation happened, the books changed from ones to
save my marriage to ones that were to save me and to help me understand what I
had been through. Books to help me
heal, books to help my children heal, and books to help me grow as a person in
general:
You Are Here: Discovering the Magic of the Present Moment
by Thich Nhat Hanh (Read 2/20/16 to 2/22/16) - 4 Star
I have read more books by Thich Nhat Hanh than I can
count. He is a Buddist Monk, and he
speaks to my soul. This is a tiny book,
only about 150 pages, but it talks about being in the present and how to
appreciate exactly where you are in your life.
His words tend to flow over me like calming waters and I often turn to
his books in times of anxiety and stress.
Screamfree
Parenting: The Revolutionary Approach to
Raising Your Kids by Keeping it Cool by Hal Edward Runkel (Listened to 5/1/16
to 5/22/16) - 4 Star
This is a parenting book about how to parent to raise
independent kids, to stop yelling and over reacting and listening and actually
connecting with your kids. I found the
audio book so good I recommended it to all the moms I know and bought a hard
copy for my library. It confirms so many
things my parents used to raise me, but in more modern applications. It talks about teaching children to make good
decisions and how to do that in a society that pressures parents to hover and
not let their kids be independent. It
helped give ideas of how to balance the modern world with the ideals from my
own childhood.
It's my Life Now:
Starting Over After an Abusive Relationship or Domestic Violence by Meg Kennedy
Dugan (Read 5/27/16 to 6/7/16) - 5 Star
This discusses how to recover once you escape from an
abusive relationship, because honestly escape is just the first step there is a
lot of work and a lot of healing that must happen after. There were some great resources listed and
book suggestions that I actually took.
It was a great first step down healing.
Victory Over Verbal
Abuse: A Healing Guide to Renewing Your Spirit and Reclaiming Your Life by
Patricia Evans (Read 7/8/16 to 7/29/16) - 3 Star
This was about what I had been through, it was good and it
confirmed and showed me that no I wasn't crazy.
I didn't feel it did much on the path to recovery, but maybe I read it
to early too.
Mindfulness for
Beginners by Jon Kabat-Zinn (Listened to 7/19/16 to 8/24/16) - 3 Star
These were supposed to be medetations, but there was a lot
of chatter, they were ok, I would rather pick up a Thich Nhat Hanh book I
think.
When Dad Hurts Mom:
Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse by Lundy Bancroft
(Read 8/29/16 to 9/9/16) - 5 Star
This is the most helpful book I read, it really helped me to
change some of the ways I was doing things with my kids and how I was
explaining/handling the situation with my ex and them. After reading this, things began to improve. I feel that this was most practical book I read,
and it had actual advice to give. Being
a victim of abuse, especially verbal abuse, I doubt my own judgment and my own
decision making skills not only about myself but about my kids and the
decisions I was making for them. The
advice here allowed me to regain some of my confidence as a parent.
Boundaries in Dating
by Henry Cloud (Read 9/9/16 to 9/11/16) - 2 Star
I read this because I'm back in the dating world, and I felt
it might be nice to have some ideas it was nothing new, the boundaries I had already
known. It just gave a lot of christian
reasons for why to have them.
How to Survive the
Loss of A Love by Melba Colgrove (Read 9/12/16 to 9/20/16) - 2 Star
This was an odd book, it was full of poetry and odd advice,
I didn't find it useful at all. Although
I did like some of the poems.
Codependent No
More: How to Stop Controlling Others and
Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie (Read 9/24/16 to 9/30/16) - 4 Star
I am a co-dependent.
I enable and I take care of people, there are lots of reasons why I
learned this behavior. I always thought
being co-dependent meant being weak, and found the term derogatory. It isn't something I want to be, but I find
it less insulting. This real gave me
some insight to my own behavior and how my actions had allowed some of the
things to happen in my life, it made me look closer at myself.
The Little Book of
Letting Go: A Revolutionary 30-day Program to Cleanse Your Mind, Lift Your
Spirit and Replenish Your Soul by Hugh Prather (Read 9/11/16 to 10/5/16) - 2 Star
This was recommended by my therapist, and I found it might
have been useful earlier on, but it felt repetitive as I had done most of the
things it recommended already.
The Verbally Abusive
Relationship: How to Recognize It and How to Respond by Patricia Evans (Read
10/10/16 to 10/26/16) - 3 Star
Helping Your Kids
Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way by Patricia Romanowski Bashe (Read
10/8/16 to 11/10/16) - 3 Star
This was insightful, and I think that it would be a good
book for parents going through a divorce that does not involve abuse, either
physical or substance. The advice there
seemed like it would be great if I was divorcing a rational or even stable
person, but due to the situation things were just not tenable. There was a blurb in the book about halfway
in that a lot of this information can be disregarded when an abusive situation
is present; it was at that point that I started skimming.
Beyond Codependency:
And Getting Better All the Time by Melody Beattie (Read 11/17/16 to 12/6/16) -
2 star
This was a slow read, and it focused a lot on 12 step
programs, which turned me off. I am sure
there was a lot of good info in it, but it got lost in the promotion of joining
a 12-step.
2016 in Review Part 2
Part 2:
This is Where it Ends
by Marieke Nijkamp (Listened to 10/21/16 to 10/22/16) - 4 Star
Wow that was powerful!
An hour of pure terror, heroism, and love. It wasn't a condemnation of massacre
shooters, it was about the ability of one person going above for another, and
about humanity. The motives are
immaterial when faced with such a terrifying event the unity and connections formed
are admirable. Great writing I was
really drawn in.
California by Edan
Lepucki (Read 10/1/16 to 10/26/16) - 3 Star
I enjoyed the story, I am not sure I enjoyed the shifting
point of views. Both Frieda and Cal are
sad different people from the way they view each other, but I suppose that is
true of any relationship. The book is
super creepy, The Land is a cult. I
can't stand Frida though, she is stupid and blind, and the poster child for
"the internet can only publish the truth" type person. It was an ok read, wouldn't recommend
though.
Bridget Jones Diary
by Helen Fielding (Read 10/26/16 to 10/30/16) - 2 Star
Interesting that Colin firth playing Mr. Darcy in book is
major crush of Bridget, and he played Mark Darcy in movie....hmmm I know this is supposed to be a revamp of
Pride and Prejudice, but I don't see it.
It totally reminded me of pre-married days. I couldn't imagine living this way now. I like the movie better.
Bridget Jones: The
Edge of Reason by Helen Fielding (Read 10/30/16 to 11/3/16) - 2 Star
I was bored, not sure as to why this book doesn't seem as
fun as the movies. Egads another book
that I prefer the movie too. The antics
that are supposed to be amusing just aren't doing it for me.
Bridget Jones's Guide
to Life by Helen Fielding (Read 11/3/16) - 1 Star
Cut little book, didn't add anything to the series.
Down the Rabbit Hole
by Various Authors (Read 11/3/16 to 11/13/16) - 3 Star
This had 5 short stories:
Wonderment in Death I like it, I like the In Death
series though, I like the futuristic twist to the detective stories. The crime was a little predictable but I still thought it was a fun little
story. I like the image of Alice at the
"tea party."
Alice and the Earl in Wonderland Another story that is from another series, so
the characters were well developed, it was a bit of a teaser though, made me
interested in reading the actual books,
so I guess it did its job. It had
a nice switch up of characters being pulled into future rather than the past.
iLove Our phones are the rabbit hole! I loved the idea, It was a cute little love story about
appreciating each other.
A True Heart
IRS Revenue Office as lead character....so many things wrong that it
made it really hard to focus on the story.
Fallen very
strange romance, the end seemed slapped together, like oops lets wrap this
up. It was ok for time travel, but I
liked Alice and the Earl in Wonderland better.
The First Bad Man by
Miranda July (Listened to 11/21/16 to 11/28/16) - 1 Star
Very strange story - the whole scenario seems off. Cheryl is crazy and the way her inner dialogue
works keeps it that way. The whole book
is crazy. Who would give this crazy
woman a baby? I wasn't attracted to any
of the characters, they are all creeps.
The Girl with No Past
by Kathryn Croft (Listened to 11/29/16 to 12/1/6) - 4 Star
This was a good listen.
I really liked Leah and I was kept guessing until the very end as to
what actually happened!
Only a Promise by Mary Balough (Read 12/17/16 to
12/7/16) - 5 Star
OMG a romance book that I gave 5 stars to! I really liked it. I picked the book up based on a review that
it wasn't your typically romance. Sex
doesn't fix the relationship issues, character growth does! And the review was right. The Characters weren't automatically in love because
they had amazing sex. Actually they had
blah sex, which was appropriate for the story line. I really liked it.
The Winter People by
Jennifer McMahon (Read 12/8/16 to 12/10/16) - 4 Star
This was a fun supernatural mystery. I saw part of the twists but not all. The actual way it came about was unexpected.
Warm Bodies by Isaac
Marion (Listened to 12/2/16 to 12/15/16) - 4 Star
This was a check out from the library because I liked the
movie, it was sorta similar, but not really.
There was a lot more depth to the story than I expected.
Holidays on Ice by
David Sendaris (Read 12/8/16 to 12/23/16) - 1 Star
This was awful. The
author was too sarcastic and down right cruel in my opinion. I didn't have a single story I enjoyed.
After You by JoJo
Moyes (Listened to 12/24/16 to 12/31/16) - 3 Star
This was an ok wrap up to the first one, it let us see what
had become of Louisa, I thought it was good, but not as good as the first.
Saturday, February 4, 2017
2016 in Review Part 1
So per the agreement with my Lawyer, “Client Agrees that so
long as Attorney represents Client and the case is an ongoing case and there
has been no final orders entered in this matter, Client will not discuss the
case or post the status of the case on any social media including, but not
limited to, Facebook, My Space, LinkedIn, Twitter, Tweet, or any other chat
line. Client understands that any such puissant or discussion may have a
negative effect on this matter as it proceeds in the court system.” Hence
none of this will be posted until after everything is said and done, I don't want to take any chances.
2016 has been a bit of a shit storm. A very nasty and high conflict divorce has
really taken up my time. So sadly I did
not get all my books written up as I read, but I did read and take notes, so
instead, you are getting a year in review in 2 parts!
Royal Affairs: A
Lusty Romp through the Extramarital Adventures that Rocked the British Monarchy
by Leslie Carroll (Read 2/3/16 to 2/13/16) - 4 Star
This is a history of scandals of the British Royals for the
last 1,000 years. It was broken up by
reigns and affairs. It was a fun
read. Very light and well written. I enjoyed it, but don't know that I would
necessarily quote it or recommend it.
Angel's Share by
Garfield Ellis (Read 2/17/16 to 2/20/16) - 3 star
This book is about Everton Dorril, a Jamaican man who goes
on a search and eventually a road trip with his father and the evolution of
their relationship. This was a slow read
for me. I wasn't as invested as the
characters, nor did I want to be. I
loved the imagery but the story line wasn't engaging to me. I like the book ok, I thought it should have
been more of mystery, where was his father, instead it was more of a journey of
discovery. Discovering who his father
is/was and who Everton is. The writing
was good, the dialogue threw me off some, but I got used to it. I'm not sure this would be a book I would
recommend, but I wouldn't say don't read it either.
Where She Went by
Gayle Forman (Read 2/16/16) - 4 Star
This is the Sequel to "If I Stay." It takes place three years after the first
book and is written from Adam's point of view.
The story wasn't as great as "If I Stay," but it does give the
reader some closure as to what happened to the characters for which I am very
thankful. I felt the storyline wasn't
quite as intense as "If I Stay," but I still really enjoyed it.
The Magician's Nephew
by C.S. Lewis (Read 2/13/16 to 2/28/16) - 4 Star
This is timeline wise the first in the Narnia series, but I
think it falls more like # 6 in the published dates. Essentially this is the story of how Narnia
was created. There is a ton of foreshadowing,
which would make sense since most the rest of the series had already been
written. I hate the Uncle, he is sucha
coward. I never really thought I got I
the Christian theme in the any of the Narnia books, but it was a bit more
prominent in this one. Usually the theme
is subtle and you really have to want to see, but there are a few scenes in
this story that are overt.
Brave New World by
Aldous Huxley (Read 3/7/16 to 3/21/16) - 2 Star
In a future world, Controllers have created an ideal society
through brainwashing and genetic engineering.
In some ways it reminded me of
divergent. The manufacturing as an idea
makes sense now that I think about it because of all the references to
Ford. This takes place in AF 632, which
is about the year 2540, not that far in the future. The story line is incredibly raciest, but
since it was written in 1931 it makes sense.
Although there were some comments that shocked me. I didn't care much for the jumping between
points of view in the first chapters. It
made it really hard to read. Once Huxley
picked a single point of view to follow, it became easier. But after a while the reading felt tedious to
me, I had a hard time seeing the point
of the book, besides to bash consumerism, which at this point is a worn out
theme in my mind. By the end I didn't
like the book, it is totally my genre, but it just didn't do it for me. I was happy when I finally finished, maybe it
is where I am in my life and my divorce, but a bleak future portrayed here with
no change just depressed me.
Room by Emma Donaghue
(Read 3/23/16 to 3/29/16) - 4 star
This about a 5 year old boy Jack and his mom. Room is Jack's entire world, then one day Ma
helps him escape rolled in a rug, and he helps rescue her. And the world is suddenly infinite. The whole book is written from Jack's point
of view, which could have been an epic fail, but it works. I really enjoyed the book and the innocent
and naive point of view.
Smarter Than You
Think: How Technology is Changing Our
Minds for the Better by Clive Thompson (Read 2/22/16 to 3/30/16) - 4 Star
This is a nonfiction book discussing how technology boots
our cognitive thinking. I found it
extremely well written and informative.
It made me re-think some ideas I had about how technology was dumbing
down society. That actually it might be
doing the opposite, by changing our way of thinking.
The Fault in Our
Stars by John Greene (Read 3/8/16 to 3/31/16) - 2 Star
Hazel has a terminal tumor, she accepts her inevitable
death, and then she meets Augustus Waters and her entire life changes. I think that because I have seen the movie
and I know what is coming I can't seem to enjoy the book as much. I just want to see if the book and movie
endings are the same. Additionally, love
stories turn my stomach some right now, so I am especially disinterested. I must be grumpy. It followed the movie very closely. I think I should have read this at a
different time in my life to appreciate it.
I didn't, I found it to be a depressing read and it made me sad when I
wanted to be anything but sad.
Ready Player One by
Earnest Cline (Read (3/31/16 to 4/2/16) - 5 Star
OMG OMG I love this book, it has shot onto my top 10
favorite books! It is set in 2044 and
the world is ugly, almost everyone lives in virtual reality and the book
follows Wade Watts as he plays a VR treasure hunt. It is full of 80's pop culture references,
and made all my geek senses tingle. The
storyline isn't that fresh, but Clive's writing and all the geeky references
make the story!
The Forgotten Girls
by Sara Blaedel (Listened to 3/31/16 to 4/3/16) - 3 Star
This is translated book from a Denmark Author, it is #7 in
the series, but it's ok that you haven't read the others. It makes me want to go back and start at the
beginning, but I can't read Dutch. I
think translations start at book 2. It
was a great thriller and kept me guessing to the end. It was an audio book and I enjoyed the
narrator.
The Humbug Murders by
L.J. Oliver (Read 4/7/16 to 4/30/16) - 2 Star
This is a murder mystery where the detective is Ebenezer
Scrooge. I loved the idea and the twist,
but the reading was very slow for me. It
was such a slow read for me, I had a really hard time getting into it. Almost like Dickens had written it.
Cage of Deceit by
Jennifer Anne Davis (Read 4/30/16 to 5/7/16) - 3 Star
This is the first in a new series, Reign of Secrets. The Heir Allyssa appears to be an ideal
princess, but she fights crime at night.
This of course gets her in hot water when she has to marry to stop a
war. It was good, I liked it, a bit
predictable but good enough that I want to read the second book.
Summer Secrets by
Jane Green (Read 5/14/16 to 5/24/16) - 4 Star
This is the story of a recovering alcoholic who is trying to
follow her program and make amends.
There are twists and turns and betrayals. I found this interesting because it made me
wonder how much I would forgive my ex if he came to me further in his recovery
and truly was sorry and wanted to make amends.
Would I forgive him for the pain he caused while under the influence or
would I want to exact revenge? I would
like to think I would be the bigger person.
Dragonflight by Anne
McCaffrey (Read 5/1/16 to 5/25/16) - 3 Star
This was not my first read of this book. I really like Lessa, she is hard and
sometimes cold hearted, yes but sometimes to reach ones goals and means to a
better end the actions are not always nice.
She spends a good deal of her time looking at the greater picture. And yes she probably caused some harm, but I
truthfully think the harm would have happened with or without her. The dragons are not a soft species and they
need a ruthless queen, and I think Lessa will be one. Not ruthless as in rule the world, but
ruthless in a way that will save lives when the Thread falls. And Thread what an ambiguous and scary
threat, not much is said beyond its deadliness. As this was not my first read, I know that
there is a ton of foreshadowing for the series end in the prologue which I totally
missed on my first read through. So the
first time I read the series, I read in chronological order not publishing
order so this was actually like book #15 or something. Having the back story made this book make
more sense, especially knowledge of the historical riders mentioned. With that being said I could see how some of
the story could be confusing as to what is happening for a first time reader.
The Grownup by
Gillian Flynn (Read 6/25/16) - 1 Star
This is actually a short story. Sadly I can't even remember what the story
was about, it didn't go along with any of the other Gillian Flynn's I read, and
it just was forgettable.
Red Riding Hood by
Sarah Blakely-Cartwright (Listened to 6/20/16 to 6/28/16) - 2 Star
This is a retelling of Little Red Riding Hood. It was an audio book and let me tell you the
narrator makes all the difference, the narrator of this ruined the book for me,
I just couldn't get into it or even care about the twist. It was awful.
The Witness Wore
Red: the 19th Wife Who Brought
Polygamous Cult Leaders to Justice by Rebecca Musser (Read 5/31/16 to 6/28/16)
- 5 Star
I seem to have developed a slight obsession with polygamy
stories since I discovered Sister Wives on TLC.
I don't understand sharing your husband, I totally get sharing household
duties and child care, but sharing a husband baffles me much the same as the
swinger lifestyle baffles me. I don't
judge, but I don't understand either which is probably why I have an interest. I thought this was an interesting insight
from a woman who got out, and how much courage it took her to leave.
The Goldfinch by
Donna Tartt (Read 6/17/16 to 7/7/16) - 3 Star
This was an ok read, I liked it better than The Secret
History, but it was still really slow for me.
I had a hard time getting through the reading. I really struggled throughout the whole book
with boredom. The storyline seemed
static and full of social commentary; loveless marriages and everyone is a
cheat or a fake. It just felt very
cliché to me.
Neverwhere by Neil
Gaiman (Read 7/1/16 to 7/14/16) - 5 Star
I loved it and I want a sequel!
The Life Changing
Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of
Decluttering and Organizing By Marie Kondo (Listened to 7/12/16 to 7/14/16) - 5
Star
I liked it, the tips were interesting and I really wanted to
go home and declutter after listening to it, I may even buy an actual copy of
the book.
The Haunting of Hill
House by Shirley Jackson (Listened to 7/14/16 to 7/19/16) - 3 Star
It was ok, I had a hard time paying attention though, I am
sure I missed huge swaths of the story because it was audio and I zoned out.
To Kill a Mocking
Bird by Harper Lee (Read 7/8/16 to 7/29/16) - 4 Star
I liked the story it was engaging and interesting. I did have to remind myself sometimes about
the era that this book was written in, and not get my liberal panties in a
twist. I liked the book, I thought it
was good, and I was a little sad that I had missed it in high school.
America's First
Daughter by Stephanie Dray (Read 8/1/16 to 8/11/16) - 4 Star
I liked the story, I know from the author's note that they
tried very hard to make it accurate historical fiction but some parts of course
were not. It made me want to read more
about Jefferson.
Priest by Sierra
Simone (Read 8/11/16 to 8/13/16)
Wowsa!!! This was an
interesting twist and man was the sex HOT!
Go Set a Watchman by
Harper Lee (Read 7/30/16 to 8/18/16) - 5 Star
I actually liked this one better than To Kill a Mockingbird,
I don't understand what all the hollering was about. I thought it was a really good book. I could see where To Kill a Mockingbird came
from, although this book had some of the facts, such as the outcome of the
trial, different. I thought the person
Scout grew up to be was very reasonable and possible. I was sad with her romance choice. I felt the book did a great job of showing
how conflicted people could be in the 60's especially in the south.
The Martian by Andy
Weir (Read 8/21/16 to 8/25/16) - 5 Star
I loved it.
Storyline, the language, the science, all of it, I did a happy dance.
Wreckage by Emily
Bleeker (Read 8/25/16 to 8/29/16) - 3 Star
This was an ok book, but the plot twists were very
transparent from the start and it all wrapped up a little too neatly for my
taste.
Little Black Dress by
Susan McBride (Listened to 9/21/16 to 9/23/16) - 5 Star
I liked this book alot, I have a special place in my heart
for magical surrealism.
Me Before You by Jojo
Moyes (Listened to 9/18/16 to 9/26/16) - 5 Star
OMG this book hit me in an emotional spot. I saw the ending coming from a mile away but
still I cried like a baby the whole time.
It wasn't a typical love story, and I think that was part of the
appeal. To love and to have lost, really
hits me right now. I am still grieving
the loss of my marriage some, and I have said to many people it was as if my ex
had died, because he is so different from the person I married. I could totally relate to Louisa at the end.
Invisible Monsters by
Chuck Plahniuk (Read 9/7/16 to 9/30/16) - 3 Star
This was an outrageously satirical book. Not in a lets laugh at ourselves and society,
but more of a Hey took a good long hard look at yourself way. I thought it was an ok ready, I didn't care
for the style of writing, the multiple point of view and timeline jumps ere had
to follow. I didn't' see a moral of the
story per se. I felt like Pkahniuk
wanted us to become aware of and reflect on society and its view of beauty and
the damage that view does to us. It was
very random and wow every character was fucked up! I wonder if the narrator is a monster because
she is missing her jaw or because she is missing her compassion. Is that the whole point? That she is a more of a monster on the inside
than the outside? But then again none of
the characters are nice; I can't name a single decent person as a
character. I wonder if it a social
commentary that we all have a little monster in us, and Plahniuk just
exaggerated and highlighted those traits to show us our own reflections. Our Narrator seems to accept herself monster
and all, I'm not saying that we should celebrate our monster traits, but maybe
Plahniuk is saying we should embrace ourselves , flaws and all.
Big Little Lies by
Liane Moriarty (Listened to 9/28/16 to 10/3/16) - 5 Star
This was a great book, and spent the entire listen trying to
figure out who died. I loved the
characters; they were developed and very relatable. I spent almost every chapter praying this
character would not be the one to die. I
could especially relate to Celeste. I
have come to admire Moriarty's writing, her stories are never predictable and
the characters are always well developed, even when they are not likable, they
are at least relatable.
*SPOILER* I am a
domestic violence victim myself. I was
he breadwinner and seemed such a strong independent woman to everyone on the
outside. My Ex-Husband used to cut me
down at every turn. I could completely
relate to having a "perfect" marriage to the outside world and living
in a your own personal hell inside your home.
Armada by Ernest
Cline (Read 9/28/16 to 10/6/16) - 5 Star
This was just as loveable as Ready Player One. I love the old school video games and 80's
references. It seemed set up as if there
could be a sequel. I wouldn't be disappointed
if there was one.
From Ashes into Light
by Gundrun Mouw (Read 10/6/16 to 10/8/16) - 2 Star
This was a slow and sad read. It was an ok story, but it really had no
movement. It seemed like an endless
cycle of discrimination and pointless violence and no sign of things getting
any better by the end, just a shared historical experience.
Monday, April 25, 2016
If I Stay by Gayle Forman (Read 1/27/16)
This was my Feburary NNCC book. It was so good that I sat down and read it in one sitting. And then I read it a second time right before our meeting.
This is told from he point of view of Mia, who has been in a tragic accident, she is in coma and having an out of body experience. She watches her loved ones watch over her and must decide if she wants to stay or if she wants to go.
I don't know why this book was so amazing, but I loved it. I am seriously considering buying the actual book. Some of the characters were unrealistic and the story line was a bit flimsy in places, but something about the writing drew me in and made me love it.
Sunday, April 24, 2016
The Orphan Train by Christina Barker Klein (Read 1/10/16 to 1/27/16)
This is my January BOTM read. The tale is told from two points of view. Molly Ayer, and almost 18 year old foster child. She is just months from "aging out" of the child welfare system, and close to being kicked out of her foster home, as a last ditch effort she takes on a community service position helping an elderly woman clean out her attic to avoid juvenile detention and homelessness.
Vivian Daly, the elderly lady, has lived a quiet life on the coast of Maine but her attic is full of her memories and her past, which was not always as quiet. As she helps Vivian sort through her possessions and memories, Molly and Viviane forma remarkable friendship.
I really liked the book from the very start. Viviane had a really rough childhood, and it made me sad hat she was taken advantage of the way she was. I liked both characters Molly and Vivian, and I found the parallels in their lives fascinating. Parts of the book made really angry, especially when it came to the treatment Vivian received as a child.
The ending feel a little unfinished. But I think Kline did that to leave things up the reader's imagination about Molly and Viviane's future. I like to think it was a happy one, but I would have liked it to end a little more on the tidy side.
Vivian Daly, the elderly lady, has lived a quiet life on the coast of Maine but her attic is full of her memories and her past, which was not always as quiet. As she helps Vivian sort through her possessions and memories, Molly and Viviane forma remarkable friendship.
I really liked the book from the very start. Viviane had a really rough childhood, and it made me sad hat she was taken advantage of the way she was. I liked both characters Molly and Vivian, and I found the parallels in their lives fascinating. Parts of the book made really angry, especially when it came to the treatment Vivian received as a child.
The ending feel a little unfinished. But I think Kline did that to leave things up the reader's imagination about Molly and Viviane's future. I like to think it was a happy one, but I would have liked it to end a little more on the tidy side.
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